My first date with a girl (24, apparel store clerk) I became friends with through social media was a stay-at-home date at a hotel with a private sauna, which she'd said she wanted to try. I'm grateful for the sauna boom, which allows for this type of flirtation. The great thing about private saunas is that men and women can enter together. At first, I was wearing my swimsuit, but eventually I took it off. Whenever I felt like it, we had sex right away, in the sauna, in the open-air bath, in bed... whenever I had free time, I had raw sex with this beautiful girl with a slender body who trembled just by playing with her sensitive, erect nipples.