We had an arranged marriage and immediately got married... My beautiful wife always speaks to me in polite language, yet we have a passionate sex life! Perhaps because we got married immediately after our arranged marriage, my wife still speaks to me in polite language even after we got married. Not only is her tone of voice extremely elegant, but her demeanor is also extremely refined, and she naturally uses "anata" (you) as a second person pronoun... and of course, she uses honorific language in bed too. She is ladylike and refined... and on top of that, she's sexy! Let me introduce you to my proud wife! "To calm your morning wood," "I'll wash your back, honey," "Dirty words I want her to say in polite language," "A wife who speaks politely is good in bed."